Choosing to have a homebirth is a personal decision. It allows expectant parents to create an environment that’s most conducive to their comfortability and relaxation. We all know how much thought, planning, and preparation is put into making a homebirth as beautiful and as empowering of an experience as possible. I want to bring up some things to hopefully help guide you through the essential steps to prepare for a homebirth, empowering you to embrace the journey with confidence, comfort, and peace of mind.

1. Choosing a Qualified Care Provider:

Selecting a qualified and experienced healthcare provider who supports homebirth is paramount. There’s every few OB’s who attend home births and the only ones I know of are in Southern California. Look for certified nurse-midwives, licensed midwives, or other trained professionals specializing in home birth. Schedule consultations, ask questions about their philosophy of care, and ensure that their approach aligns with your desires for a homebirth experience.

2. Creating a Safe and Supportive Environment:

Preparing your home for the birth requires careful attention to create a safe and comfortable space. Consider the following aspects:

   - Identify a quiet, private area where you feel most at ease, whether it's a bedroom, living room, or dedicated birthing space (unsurprisingly many people end up birthing in their bathrooms, myself included).

   - Gather necessary supplies such as clean towels, sheets, waterproof covers, and absorbent pads (your midwife should give you a list of essential items they want you to have by 37 weeks).

   - Set up a birthing pool if desired, ensuring it is properly sanitized and assembled according to the manufacturer's instructions (DO NOT fill it up until you are in labor).

   - Ensure that your home is well-lit, with access to natural light and adjustable lighting options (your birth photographer will love you).

   - Have a backup plan in case of unexpected circumstances or the need for transfer to a hospital.

3. Assembling a Birth Support Team:

Having a supportive team by your side during a homebirth is essential. Consider including the following individuals:

   - A trained midwife or healthcare provider experienced in homebirth.

   - A doula or birth support person to provide emotional, physical, and informational support throughout labor and delivery.

   - Your partner or a trusted family member/friend who will offer unwavering support and advocacy.

- A birth photographer, because documenting your birth is way more important than documenting a wedding. I promise.

4. Educating Yourself and Developing a Birth Plan:

Invest time in educating yourself about homebirth, the stages of labor, pain management techniques, and emergency procedures. Develop a birth plan that reflects your preferences for the birthing process, including your desired level of intervention, pain relief options, and any cultural or personal rituals you wish to incorporate. Share your birth plan with your healthcare provider and support team to ensure everyone is on the same page.

5. Practicing Self-Care and Emotional Preparation:

Prioritize self-care throughout your pregnancy journey to promote overall well-being. Engage in activities that help you relax and connect with your inner self, such as meditation, prenatal yoga, or gentle exercises. Surround yourself with positive and supportive influences, whether through books, podcasts, or supportive communities. Take time to process any fears or concerns surrounding homebirth and discuss them openly with your support team.

6. Preparing for Postpartum:

While focusing on the birthing experience is crucial, it's equally important to prepare for the postpartum period. Arrange for postpartum support, including assistance with household tasks, meal preparation, and emotional support. Stock up on postpartum essentials such as comfortable clothing, nursing supplies (if breastfeeding), and items for postpartum recovery.

7. Communication and Emergency Preparedness:

Establish clear lines of communication with your healthcare provider and support team. Ensure that everyone is aware of emergency protocols, including when to seek medical assistance or transfer to a hospital. Familiarize yourself with the closest hospital's location and contact information.

it’s all about you

You do whatever you feel you need to have. If you want fairy lights hung all over your ceiling, sweet do it. If you want to birth in a dress while cooking dinner, cool, do it. Ask someone to finish cooking dinner though so it’s not burnt if you choose this 😂 While yes there are things that your midwife expects you to have, there’s also not really much YOU need. Your body knows how to birth your baby, you just have to listen to it, and trust it when your birthing day starts.